BDSM Posts

Bondage for Beginners

A Safe, Couples-Focused Guide to Getting Started

Curious about bondage but not sure where to start? You’re not alone. Bondage—the consensual practice of restraining a partner for sexual pleasure and enhanced intimacy—is one of the most common fantasies out there, and there’s absolutely nothing unusual about wanting to explore it with your partner.

What is Sensory Play in BDSM?

A Beginner's Guide to Sensation Play

Picture this: your partner ties a soft blindfold around your eyes. Suddenly, every sound feels amplified, every touch electrifying. The anticipation builds as you wonder what sensation comes next—will it be the tickle of a feather, the shock of an ice cube, or the warmth of their breath against your skin? Welcome to the world of sensory play.

Safe Impact Play for Beginners

How to Start Exploring With Your Partner

That playful swat during sex left you both curious for more—but how do you explore impact play safely, without awkwardness or anxiety?

What It Really Means to Be Submissive in BDSM

Surrender isn’t weakness—it’s the strength to trust, to open, and to let yourself be known

To submit is not to lose power, but to share it — with purpose, presence, and courage.

What It Really Means to Be Dominant in BDSM

Understanding power, trust, and emotional connection in healthy dominance

In BDSM, being dominant means more than taking charge—it means creating safety, structure, and connection.

How to Explore BDSM with a Partner

Navigating Curiosity, Consent, and Kinky Conversations

You’re curious about BDSM—and that’s a great place to start. Whether you’re craving control, submission, or just a little something new in the bedroom, this guide will help you explore what excites you, understand your own desires, and talk to your partner without feeling awkward.

Consent, Communication, and Negotiation

Why "Yes" is just the beginning in BDSM relationships

Discover how consent, safewords, and communication build safer, hotter BDSM. The hottest scenes start with a single word: yes. But we’re going deeper.

Is Bdsm for Me?

Explore your desires and how they align with BDSM

Do you find yourself dreaming about BDSM but you’re not sure if you’re ready? I’m here to help. I’ve got the questions you need to ask yourself (and your partner) to make up your mind and a roadmap for you to follow when you do decide you are ready. And we’ve even got some of the potential roadblocks you need to keep your eyes out for.

BDSM for Beginners

Unfolding the Intricacies of Power & Pleasure

As we kick off our expansive series on BDSM, we start with the very basics: What exactly is BDSM? BDSM is a portmanteau of initialisms that represent several subcategories: Bondage/Discipline (B/D), Dominance/Submission (D/S), and Sadism/Masochism (S/M). It is an umbrella term that covers a broad range of sexual preferences, interests, and practices, each of them centred around a power exchange between consenting partners. Moreover, BDSM is not just about sexual activities; it is a distinct way of expressing and exploring relationships, advancing a unique balance of power, submission, and mutual respect.