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Navigate the world of intimacy with our insightful articles on The Strawberry Patch. Dive into expert-written content covering relationship advice, sex education, and tips for enhancing emotional and physical connections. Empower yourself with knowledge and explore various aspects of intimacy, fostering stronger, healthier relationships and personal growth.

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How to Have Better Sex in 2026: A Couples' Guide to Sustainable Intimacy

Forget the quick tips. Here's what actually builds a satisfying sex life.

January 1, 2026

Sexual satisfaction is surprisingly predictable—and the quick tips flooding your feed aren’t what create it. Here’s the research on what actually works for couples who want more than a one-night improvement.

Edging for Beginners

Your First Steps to Stronger Orgasms

December 26, 2025

Edging sounds intimidating, but it’s one of the simplest techniques you can learn—and the payoff is worth it. This beginner’s guide covers exactly how to start, what to do when things don’t go as planned, and why spending more time at the edge leads to stronger finishes.

Couple celebrating International Orgasm Day by flashing the Ok sign

Happy International Orgasm Day

10 Reasons Your Body Will Thank You

December 21, 2025

It’s December 21st—the winter solstice, the darkest day of the year. And honestly? There’s no better way to bring a little light back into your life than celebrating International Orgasm Day.

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Ultimate Guide to Sex Toy Hygiene

The Complete Guide to Cleaning, Storage, and Care

December 19, 2025

Proper toy care is an act of love: for yourself, your partner, and your investment. Learn how to clean and take care of your toys from start to finish.

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Ultimate Guide to Sex Toy Materials

What's Actually Body-Safe (And What to Avoid)

December 12, 2025

Medical-grade silicone." “Body-safe materials.” “Phthalate-free.” These claims appear on packaging constantly—but with no regulation requiring them to be true, how do you know what’s real? Some manufacturers invest in genuine safety testing. Others rely on you not knowing the difference. This is your complete guide to sex toy materials: what’s safe, what’s sketchy, what belongs in the trash, and how to shop smarter.

Complete Guide to Orgasm Control

Edging, Denial, Chastity, and Beyond!

December 5, 2025

Longer sessions. Stronger finishes. Deeper connection. Orgasm control isn’t just for the kink crowd, it’s a set of skills anyone can learn, and the payoff is worth the patience.

Bondage for Beginners

A Safe, Couples-Focused Guide to Getting Started

November 28, 2025

Curious about bondage but not sure where to start? You’re not alone. Bondage—the consensual practice of restraining a partner for sexual pleasure and enhanced intimacy—is one of the most common fantasies out there, and there’s absolutely nothing unusual about wanting to explore it with your partner.

What is Sensory Play in BDSM?

A Beginner's Guide to Sensation Play

November 21, 2025

Picture this: your partner ties a soft blindfold around your eyes. Suddenly, every sound feels amplified, every touch electrifying. The anticipation builds as you wonder what sensation comes next—will it be the tickle of a feather, the shock of an ice cube, or the warmth of their breath against your skin? Welcome to the world of sensory play.

Safe Impact Play for Beginners

How to Start Exploring With Your Partner

November 14, 2025

That playful swat during sex left you both curious for more—but how do you explore impact play safely, without awkwardness or anxiety?

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Let’s Talk About Fantasies (Without Turning Red)

How to start sexy conversations that feel fun, safe, and surprisingly easy.

November 7, 2025

The most intimate thing you can share isn’t your body, it’s your imagination. When you invite someone into the private world of your fantasies, you’re not just talking about sex, you’re revealing how your desire feels, where your curiosity lives, and what makes you feel most alive.