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All About Male Orgasm

Celebrate National Orgasm Day with a look at male orgasms

July 31, 2024 Tags: Orgasm
July 31st is National Orgasm Day, a celebration of sexual climax and the issues around it. At Strawberry Patch we are celebrating with a deep dive in the male orgasm! Now ladies, don’t you worry! We will be giving you your due in a couple of weeks for International Female Orgasm Day! So let’s take a hard look at the male orgasm, what it is, and why you should probably have more of them.
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Silencing the Critic Within

How to Overcome Negative Self-Talk

How is that little voice in your head doing? Is it saying things that fill you with energy and happiness or is it making you feel down? That little voice in your head is responsible for what we call self-talk and its positivity or negativity can greatly affect your opinions, emotions, and views of yourself and others. Negative self-talk can have a serious impact on your confidence, sexuality, and your body image, affecting both your pleasure and sex drive.
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Is Bdsm for Me?

Explore your desires and how they align with BDSM

Do you find yourself dreaming about BDSM but you’re not sure if you’re ready? I’m here to help. I’ve got the questions you need to ask yourself (and your partner) to make up your mind and a roadmap for you to follow when you do decide you are ready. And we’ve even got some of the potential roadblocks you need to keep your eyes out for.
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BDSM for Beginners

Unfolding the Intricacies of Power & Pleasure

As we kick off our expansive series on BDSM, we start with the very basics: What exactly is BDSM? BDSM is a portmanteau of initialisms that represent several subcategories: Bondage/Discipline (B/D), Dominance/Submission (D/S), and Sadism/Masochism (S/M). It is an umbrella term that covers a broad range of sexual preferences, interests, and practices, each of them centred around a power exchange between consenting partners. Moreover, BDSM is not just about sexual activities; it is a distinct way of expressing and exploring relationships, advancing a unique balance of power, submission, and mutual respect.
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Intimate Resolutions for 2024

December 31, 2023 Tags: News Relationships
As we wave goodbye to the previous year, we look forward to the next with a sense of anticipation, refreshed energy, and often a list of resolutions. While we often focus on health, self-improvement, or personal finances, we rarely consider our intimate and sexual relationships. That’s a shame because, at least for me, “have more orgasms” sounds a lot more fun than “walk 10 thousand steps a day”! So let’s change that and set some deeply personal goals for 2024. I’ll get you started with a list of things I’ve come up with and then I’ll give some advice for setting your own personal resolutions.
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Our Favorite Products in 2023

You Can't Go Wrong With Any Of These

December 29, 2023 Tags: Lube Sex Toys Recommendations
As we usher in a brand new year, it is customary to reflect back on the past one, reminiscing on moments, memories, and milestones that made the year memorable. So as we get ready to kick off 2024, we’re going to look back at the products that added a dash of pizzazz to our personal lives in 2023. From lube to sex toys to what we’re looking forward to next year, buckle up for a spicer version of your year in review.
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Is Masturbation Cheating?

Tips For Addressing Conflict

Masturbation is widely considered both physically and emotionally healthy by experts and most people do it. But is it acceptable behavior in your relationship? Masturbating does not rise to the level of infidelity but some partners may still see it as a betrayal like cheating. Learn how to navigate this subject with your partner through informed communication and learn the warning signs to keep it from impacting your relationship.
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Discover the Health Impacts of Masturbation

Unveiling the Truth Behind the Taboo

December 19, 2023 Tags: Sexual Wellness Self Care Masturbation
Masturbation has been stigmatized, shrouded in secrecy, and misunderstood due to societal norms and outdated taboos. But what if this ‘solo activity’ is the unsung hero in the realm of wellness, hiding a list of surprising health benefits under its veil? Let’s pull back the curtain and take an unbiased look at the health side of masturbation, dispelling myths and misconceptions along the way.
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The Naked Truth: Why Faking Orgasms Does More Harm Than Good

December 12, 2023 Tags: Relationships Orgasm
Have you ever found yourself caught in the throes of passion, but instead of embracing the authentic ecstasy, you ended up playing the Oscar-worthy role of ‘satisfied lover’? Welcome to the not-so-secret club of those who fake orgasms. While it may seem harmless or even occasionally necessary, this act masks a detrimental effect on your sexual health, relationship, and self-esteem.