Beyond Sex Ed

Welcome to Beyond Sex Ed, one of the juiciest article series here at The Strawberry Patch. Remember sex ed back in school? If it was anything like my experience, it was little more than a shy and awkward science teacher nervous demonstrating how to put a condom on a banana. This is nothing like that.

Here we aim to teach you everything they didn’t. They taught you safe sex (I hope). We’ll teach you better sex. There is a whole world of fun beyond face to face missionary with the lights off. Learn not only how to make your partner (or yourself) feel amazing, but why it works.

You know, the fun stuff. So buckle up as we head Beyond Sex Ed.

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Edging for Beginners

Your First Steps to Stronger Orgasms

December 26, 2025
Edging sounds intimidating, but it’s one of the simplest techniques you can learn—and the payoff is worth it. This beginner’s guide covers exactly how to start, what to do when things don’t go as planned, and why spending more time at the edge leads to stronger finishes.
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Anal Play 101: How to Explore Safely and Enjoyably

A beginner's walkthrough from first touch to first session

August 25, 2025 Tags: Anal Play Beginners
Curious about anal play but not sure where to start? This is the tutorial level. It covers how the body works, how to bring it up, what to buy, and a step-by-step progression you can take at whatever speed your body sets.
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How to Use Sex Toys with Your Partner

A Beginner’s Guide to Fun and Intimacy

August 18, 2025
If you’ve ever wondered how to use sex toys with your partner, you’re not alone. Here’s how to explore them together in a way that feels fun, safe, and deeply connecting.
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Why Every Man Should Try a Cock Ring at Least Once

Myths, Benefits, and How to Start

August 11, 2025
Curious about firmer erections and more intense sensation? Here’s what cock rings can realistically do, what the evidence does and doesn’t show, and how to try one safely.
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Why The Hand Job Deserves More Love

Back to the Basics on National Hand Job Day

July 21, 2025
On National Hand Job Day we look at why this simple move is underrated and why you should bring it back to your bedroom tonight.
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All About Male Orgasm

How it works, why it isn't the same as ejaculation, and how to have better ones

July 31, 2024
The male orgasm gets treated as simple: build up, finish, done. It isn’t. This guide walks through the sexual response cycle and the refractory period, why orgasm and ejaculation are separate events, the orgasms that don’t start at the penis, and the habits that make all of them better.
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A quick lesson on the legend called Squirting

Because anything he can do she can do better

July 26, 2024
Everyone has heard about it. Men love to brag about it. But no one can seem to agree on the details. Let’s talk about squirting.
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Decoding the Lube Label

Protecting Your Intimate Moments

November 17, 2023
When it comes to intimate moments, the details matter. One often overlooked detail? The ingredients in your lubricant.
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Slip, Slide & Decide

Navigating the Diverse World of Personal Lubricants

November 3, 2023
Think you know everything about personal lubricants? Think again! Dive into the vast and varied universe of lubes, uncovering their secrets and discovering your perfect match. From water-based wonders to sumptuous silicone, there’s more to lube than meets the eye. Ready to slide into knowledge?