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Navigate the world of intimacy with our insightful articles on The Strawberry Patch. Dive into expert-written content covering relationship advice, sex education, and tips for enhancing emotional and physical connections. Empower yourself with knowledge and explore various aspects of intimacy, fostering stronger, healthier relationships and personal growth.

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BDSM for Beginners

Unfolding the Intricacies of Power & Pleasure

As we kick off our expansive series on BDSM, we start with the very basics: What exactly is BDSM? BDSM is a portmanteau of initialisms that represent several subcategories: Bondage/Discipline (B/D), Dominance/Submission (D/S), and Sadism/Masochism (S/M). It is an umbrella term that covers a broad range of sexual preferences, interests, and practices, each of them centred around a power exchange between consenting partners. Moreover, BDSM is not just about sexual activities; it is a distinct way of expressing and exploring relationships, advancing a unique balance of power, submission, and mutual respect.
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Intimate Resolutions for 2024

December 31, 2023 Tags: News Relationships
As we wave goodbye to the previous year, we look forward to the next with a sense of anticipation, refreshed energy, and often a list of resolutions. While we often focus on health, self-improvement, or personal finances, we rarely consider our intimate and sexual relationships. That’s a shame because, at least for me, “have more orgasms” sounds a lot more fun than “walk 10 thousand steps a day”! So let’s change that and set some deeply personal goals for 2024. I’ll get you started with a list of things I’ve come up with and then I’ll give some advice for setting your own personal resolutions.
Some of our favorite products from 2023

Our Favorite Products in 2023

You Can't Go Wrong With Any Of These

December 29, 2023 Tags: Lube Sex Toys Recommendations
As we usher in a brand new year, it is customary to reflect back on the past one, reminiscing on moments, memories, and milestones that made the year memorable. So as we get ready to kick off 2024, we’re going to look back at the products that added a dash of pizzazz to our personal lives in 2023. From lube to sex toys to what we’re looking forward to next year, buckle up for a spicer version of your year in review.
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Is Masturbation Cheating?

Tips For Addressing Conflict

Masturbation is widely considered both physically and emotionally healthy by experts and most people do it. But is it acceptable behavior in your relationship? Masturbating does not rise to the level of infidelity but some partners may still see it as a betrayal like cheating. Learn how to navigate this subject with your partner through informed communication and learn the warning signs to keep it from impacting your relationship.
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Discover the Health Impacts of Masturbation

Unveiling the Truth Behind the Taboo

December 19, 2023 Tags: Sexual Wellness Self Care Masturbation
Masturbation has been stigmatized, shrouded in secrecy, and misunderstood due to societal norms and outdated taboos. But what if this ‘solo activity’ is the unsung hero in the realm of wellness, hiding a list of surprising health benefits under its veil? Let’s pull back the curtain and take an unbiased look at the health side of masturbation, dispelling myths and misconceptions along the way.
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The Naked Truth: Why Faking Orgasms Does More Harm Than Good

December 12, 2023 Tags: Relationships Orgasm
Have you ever found yourself caught in the throes of passion, but instead of embracing the authentic ecstasy, you ended up playing the Oscar-worthy role of ‘satisfied lover’? Welcome to the not-so-secret club of those who fake orgasms. While it may seem harmless or even occasionally necessary, this act masks a detrimental effect on your sexual health, relationship, and self-esteem.
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Decoding the Lube Label

Protecting Your Intimate Moments

November 17, 2023 Tags: Lube
When it comes to intimate moments, the details matter. One often overlooked detail? The ingredients in your lubricant.
Many varieties of lube

Slip, Slide & Decide

Navigating the Diverse World of Personal Lubricants

November 3, 2023 Tags: Lube #LubeLife
Think you know everything about personal lubricants? Think again! Dive into the vast and varied universe of lubes, uncovering their secrets and discovering your perfect match. From water-based wonders to sumptuous silicone, there’s more to lube than meets the eye. Ready to slide into knowledge?