Relationship Advice

Welcome to The Strawberry Patch’s treasure trove of articles dedicated to relationships and intimacy - where love blossoms and conversations flow like sweet, sweet nectar. Regardless of your relationship status, this space is all about digging into the emotions, the excitement and occasionally the challenges of sharing your life with someone special. If you’re already in a relationship we can help you deepen that bond, and if you’re not, hopefully we can help you figure out what you’re looking for and learn how to attract them.

Building meaningful intimacy, debunking common relationship myths, strengthening communication, and cultivating passion, we’ve got it all covered. We approach the convoluted, intricate, and ever evolving world of relationships with empathy, respect, and a pinch of humor… because even Cupid errs at times, right? So cozy up, and let’s uncover the art of love and intimacy together, one insightful article at a time.

How to Have Better Sex in 2026: A Couples' Guide to Sustainable Intimacy

Forget the quick tips. Here's what actually builds a satisfying sex life.

January 1, 2026

Sexual satisfaction is surprisingly predictable—and the quick tips flooding your feed aren’t what create it. Here’s the research on what actually works for couples who want more than a one-night improvement.

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Let’s Talk About Fantasies (Without Turning Red)

How to start sexy conversations that feel fun, safe, and surprisingly easy.

November 7, 2025

The most intimate thing you can share isn’t your body, it’s your imagination. When you invite someone into the private world of your fantasies, you’re not just talking about sex, you’re revealing how your desire feels, where your curiosity lives, and what makes you feel most alive.

Hot on the Calendar: The Case for Scheduled Sex

It’s not about routine — it’s about making time for what matters.

August 1, 2025

Spoiler: You don’t have to wait for the mood to strike. Sometimes, the sexiest thing is making space for it — on purpose.

Is Masturbation Cheating?

Tips For Addressing Conflict

December 26, 2023

Masturbation is widely considered both physically and emotionally healthy by experts and most people do it. But is it acceptable behavior in your relationship? Masturbating does not rise to the level of infidelity but some partners may still see it as a betrayal like cheating. Learn how to navigate this subject with your partner through informed communication and learn the warning signs to keep it from impacting your relationship.

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The Naked Truth: Why Faking Orgasms Does More Harm Than Good

December 12, 2023

Have you ever found yourself caught in the throes of passion, but instead of embracing the authentic ecstasy, you ended up playing the Oscar-worthy role of ‘satisfied lover’? Welcome to the not-so-secret club of those who fake orgasms. While it may seem harmless or even occasionally necessary, this act masks a detrimental effect on your sexual health, relationship, and self-esteem.