Relationships

Let’s Talk About Fantasies (Without Turning Red)

How to start sexy conversations that feel fun, safe, and surprisingly easy.

The most intimate thing you can share isn’t your body, it’s your imagination. When you invite someone into the private world of your fantasies, you’re not just talking about sex, you’re revealing how your desire feels, where your curiosity lives, and what makes you feel most alive.

How to Use Sex Toys with Your Partner

A Beginner’s Guide to Fun and Intimacy

If you’ve ever wondered how to use sex toys with your partner, you’re not alone. Here’s how to explore them together in a way that feels fun, safe, and deeply connecting.

Hot on the Calendar: The Case for Scheduled Sex

It’s not about routine — it’s about making time for what matters.

Spoiler: You don’t have to wait for the mood to strike. Sometimes, the sexiest thing is making space for it — on purpose.

Warm sex is the new hot! And let me tell you WHY

How slowness, softness, and connection are turning up the real heat in bed

You’ve tried hot. Now it’s time to try something that melts, lingers, and wraps around your whole body.

Why The Hand Job Deserves More Love

Back to the Basics on National Hand Job Day

On National Hand Job Day we look at why this simple move is underrated and why you should bring it back to your bedroom tonight.

Intimate Resolutions for 2024

As we wave goodbye to the previous year, we look forward to the next with a sense of anticipation, refreshed energy, and often a list of resolutions. While we often focus on health, self-improvement, or personal finances, we rarely consider our intimate and sexual relationships. That’s a shame because, at least for me, “have more orgasms” sounds a lot more fun than “walk 10 thousand steps a day”! So let’s change that and set some deeply personal goals for 2024. I’ll get you started with a list of things I’ve come up with and then I’ll give some advice for setting your own personal resolutions.

Is Masturbation Cheating?

Tips For Addressing Conflict

Masturbation is widely considered both physically and emotionally healthy by experts and most people do it. But is it acceptable behavior in your relationship? Masturbating does not rise to the level of infidelity but some partners may still see it as a betrayal like cheating. Learn how to navigate this subject with your partner through informed communication and learn the warning signs to keep it from impacting your relationship.

The Naked Truth: Why Faking Orgasms Does More Harm Than Good

Have you ever found yourself caught in the throes of passion, but instead of embracing the authentic ecstasy, you ended up playing the Oscar-worthy role of ‘satisfied lover’? Welcome to the not-so-secret club of those who fake orgasms. While it may seem harmless or even occasionally necessary, this act masks a detrimental effect on your sexual health, relationship, and self-esteem.